Each person offers three statements about themselves, two true and one invented, and the group works out which is the lie. It remains the most reliable icebreaker there is because it needs no preparation and works at almost any group size.
The quality depends entirely on the statements. Three plausible, specific claims make a real puzzle; two mundane truths and an obvious fabrication make a formality.
Where it works and where it does not
It is strongest with groups who know each other slightly but not well: enough context to reason, enough unknown to be surprised. In a brand-new group people lack the basis to guess, and in a very familiar one the truths are already known.
For groups of more than about twelve, split into smaller circles. A single round with twenty people takes too long and attention drops well before the end.
Frequently asked questions
- How long does Two Truths and a Lie take?
- Roughly one to two minutes per person including discussion, so a group of eight takes about fifteen minutes. Larger groups are better split into smaller circles.
- What makes a good lie?
- One that sounds as plausible as your truths. The most effective approach is choosing genuinely surprising truths, so the group cannot simply pick the most unlikely statement.
- What group size works best?
- Six to twelve. Below that there is little discussion, and above it the round takes long enough that attention drops before everyone has had a turn.